Nashville, TN psychotherapist Susan Hammonds-White, Ed.D., LPC/MHSP has recommended Taking Up Space by Pattie Thomas, Ph.D. (with Carl Wilkerson, M.B.A.) to anyone "who has struggled with weight or who works with clients who face these issues."
She describes the book, published by Pearlsong Press in fall 2005, as "a feast of information, ideas, talking points, discussions....challenging, disturbing, and ultimately comforting as it attempts to change deeply held prejudices that for most of us are unconscious."
Dr. Hammonds-White reviewed the book In the Winter 2006 issue of Psychobits, the newsletter of the Nashville Psychotherapy Institute. She writes:
This fascinating book is a personal memoir written by Pattie Thomas, a medical sociologist who has lived with the personal struggle of being fat in a thin society for the majority of her life.
In her own words, "Taking Up Space is a collection of essays, poems, narratives, photos and drawings that tell the story of my own intellectual, emotional and physical journey to fat acceptance." Dr. Thomas has been through most of the experiences that people who are fat in this society experience: multiple diets, regaining lost weight and more, teasing, problems with seating in theaters and airplanes, snide remarks from passers-by, lectures from healthcare professionals, criticism from life partners and friends. She thought the battle with weight was within herself, and felt that she was "at war with her own body."
About ten years ago she came to believe that she was actually engaged in a cultural struggle, rather than a medical one. This book is the story of her change of heart and understanding.
Dr. Thomas points out that no one is interested in the fat person's discussion of her experience--that the fat woman's story has no validity until SHE HAS LOST WEIGHT.
Her own story is written to counter this belief and to speak her own truth. She states that:
the power of a woman with a fat body talking about the unspeakable went beyond the issue of body size. It spoke to the depths of a consumption culture dependent upon human beings being perpetually dissatisfied with their physicality, with themselves...
The book is a feast of information, ideas, talking points, discussions. Anyone who has struggled with weight or who works with clients who face these issues will find this book challenging, disturbing, and ultimately comforting as it attempts to change deeply held prejudices that for most of us are unconscious.
The Nashville Psychotherapy Institute is a multidisciplinary association for mental health professionals in the middle Tennessee area. Dr. Hammonds-White is the 2006-2007 co-chair of the organization.